Family Violence Archives - Heather Hayes & Associates https://heatherhayes.com/category/family-violence/ Interventions & Treatment Consulting Thu, 21 Jul 2022 08:48:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://heatherhayes.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/cropped-HH_logo-32x32.png Family Violence Archives - Heather Hayes & Associates https://heatherhayes.com/category/family-violence/ 32 32 Abused Children, Traumatized Adults https://heatherhayes.com/abused-children-traumatized-adults/ Fri, 22 Jul 2022 16:00:00 +0000 https://heatherhayes.com/?p=4988 Understanding how the prevalence of child abuse worldwide is shaping adult trauma Child abuse is a horribly painful subject to speak or even think about. For most parents, the idea of subjecting a child to violence, maltreatment, or neglect is unthinkable. Even adults who do not have children find this notion deeply upsetting, even frightening. […]

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]]> “Do as I Say, Not as I Do” https://heatherhayes.com/do-as-i-say-not-as-i-do/ Wed, 04 May 2022 13:49:18 +0000 https://heatherhayes.com/?p=4887 The surprising ways our mothers shape our coping strategies The first Sunday in May is Mother’s Day, a day created with the intent of spending time with our mothers and appreciating all that they have done for us. For those of us who are lucky enough to have good relationships with our mothers, spending the […]

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]]> How to Cope With Family During the Holidays https://heatherhayes.com/how-to-cope-with-family-during-the-holidays/ Sun, 19 Dec 2021 05:05:00 +0000 https://heatherhayes.com/?p=4723 The festive season is the time when many people return to their childhood homes to spend quality time with their families. Although this sounds fun in theory, it can be an incredibly stressful and exhausting time if past issues or arguments arise. Returning home from living alone or with a family of your own can […]

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]]> Parentification of Children https://heatherhayes.com/parentification-of-children/ Sun, 21 Nov 2021 05:01:00 +0000 https://heatherhayes.com/?p=4694 “Children are not things to be molded but are people to be unfolded.”   — Jess Lair, author Parents and children ideally have clearly defined roles; however, the boundaries become blurred in the case of parentification. In a healthy relationship, the parent cares for the child, allowing them to focus on their own development and […]

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]]> Substance Abuse and Family Violence https://heatherhayes.com/substance-abuse-and-family-violence/ Wed, 18 Dec 2019 00:32:00 +0000 https://heatherhayes.com/?p=2089 The issues of substance abuse and family violence are, of course, of interest independently. However, there is the growing recognition that many social and human problems such as these, do not occur independently, but actually interweave, interact and impact each other. Such is the case with substance abuse and family violence. The two are closely […]

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